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Transformation of loss and bitterness

Losing one’s son

Can change you without your knowing, yet

So does the caterpillar change to a butterfly

Or a baby to an adult

Silence is not always golden, nor

Is it necessary

To move on to the next chapter of your life

To continue to grow and heal and remember the way things used to be

Or to lose sight of what your dreams once were,

But to continue to move in the direction of changing, beginnings and endings

New face and names, new possibilities and venues

Sometimes change means staying the same and it only

Looks different

But we know the truth and we know the realities

For we need to follow the butterfly and follow the path

Moving, moving, moving

We must dance to the bitter tune of Spring of May and of June

When things we see are sought and things we don’t are not

Dance!

 

Please feel free to leave comments on how you transformed from loss and bitterness, the tears, the pain...


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